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Daniel Rudolf, founder of Xclusive Butler School

Created by Daniel Rudolf

Founder of Xclusive Butler School.

Twenty years working exclusively with High-Net-Worth Individuals, distilled into a modern curriculum.

"True service is felt, not noticed."

His story

From classical hospitality to the principals you have heard of.

Daniel Rudolf began in kitchens, not drawing rooms. He served his apprenticeship in a restaurant in Worms, the town he grew up in, then cooked his way outward — a cruise ship, London, Ibiza, St. Moritz, and later kitchens with Michelin stars. "I made schnitzel and so on. Back then I thought I could cook," he told the German press agency dpa. "Today I know I couldn't."

In his early twenties, a friend's introduction placed him as private chef to a princess. The job quietly became a different one. He was learning which side of a staircase to walk on, how to hand a lady into a car, where to stand and when to anticipate. "It was hard," he said of that period, "but I learned an enormous amount." He formalised it at the British Butler Institute in London, and was recommended from one household to the next thereafter.

The work has since taken him to more than forty countries — the United States, Europe, the Middle East, the Caribbean — running estates, wardrobes, private jets, yachts and the staff who keep them. In 2015 he took a post in New York with a Swiss-British family and their three small children: four months at a stretch, seven days a week, fourteen hours a day, then two months off. He keeps thousands of documents recording what his principals prefer — what they eat on the jet, which pillow travels with them, where they like to shop. He describes the role himself as being a nanny for adults.

The eye does not switch off. Interviewed in New York at half past nine at night, after twelve hours of work, he broke off mid-sentence: "That carpet back there has a ripple in it. I can't bear to look at it."

Mallorca is where he settled and where he founded Xclusive Mallorca, a concierge service for the same clientele, working with villa management, smart-home integration, staff placement, yacht charter and private aviation.

Xclusive Butler School is the next step. The same standard, taught — for the next generation of butlers, valets, estate managers, and yacht and aviation crew who want to operate at this level. Real insights. Real standards. Real people from the world of luxury.

Daniel Rudolf, signed

Daniel Rudolf · Founder, Xclusive Butler School

Background

Where the experience comes from.

  • Trained at the British Butler Institute, London
  • Twenty years in private service — began as a chef, later in Michelin-starred kitchens
  • Private chef to a princess in his early twenties
  • Has worked across more than 40 countries — US, Europe, Middle East, Caribbean
  • Founder, Xclusive Mallorca — bespoke concierge across the Mediterranean

The lessons he teaches in the academy →

In the press

Daniel's work has been reported by German national television and by the press agency dpa, whose 2020 profile ran in newspapers across Germany and Austria.

The book

Sonst noch Wünsche?Das geheime Leben der Crazy Rich. Ein Butler erzählt.

Daniel's first book, an insider account of twenty years in private service, will be published in German by Heyne on 11 November 2026.

Heyne · ISBN 978-3-453-60750-7

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